Ode to mama boys

Ode to mama boys
To the ones who are cowards 
To the ones who chose their mamas instead of wives
Yall are goin to get lonelier….
Y’all never realized y’all are grown men 
Real men set boundaries, it doesn’t mean they have to push their moms away…
It means real men have their family now…they have responsibilities…
It’s what the moms taught them in the first place…
Did they forget?
Also I don’t understand toxic mothers….
Why are they so jealous of their sons’ girlfriends/wives?
What is the point?
It’s inappropriate by the way….
Why do they have to mistreat them?
I saw a mom killed her daughter in law on YouTube 
There’s another that a mom always sits in the front of the car 
And the wife in the back….
The worse part about your moms 
Y’all don’t see your wives endurance 
Y’all don’t see they’re breakin 
Y’all told them she’s my mother 
Learn to respect and humble 
After your mothers invade your homes you built on…
You let your mother be the woman of your house, 
Not your wife
Y’all ain’t little boys…yet y’all actin like one….
This is why wives left y’all 
Cos y’all don’t consider your marriage at all
I guess y’all have to marry your mamas….
After all, they don’t know how to let their sons go….
The saddest part about the whole situation 
Is that they feel more emptier than ever….
Y’all are goin to be regretful everyday…
Y’all know why….
I’m like why are y’all married?
I know y’all love your mamas a lot 
They gave you life they made sacrifices and 
Y’all always be grateful…
Y’all grow up to be a man
Have a wife and kids 
And a home full of joy….
Y’all have many responsibilities to take care of 
Y’all supposed to lead provide and protect 
Y’all love your family with all your heart 
Y’all think I’m tellin y’all what to do…
I’m givin y’all  a message 
I’m tellin y’all facts…
I’m not a man
I heard stories about toxic boy moms
They’re not good…
Sided with a toxic mom who dehumanize 
Your wife is not a peacemaker 
It’s not how you make everythin feels ok 
When your wife cries in the bathroom 
Under your roof….
She hands out divorce 
And took the babies
Now her absences are gettin on your nerves
Y’all missed your wives
And it’s your mama’s fault 
Cos toxic boy moms are insecure 
They made a decision for y’all….
A choice y’all didn’t want 
Or didn’t know 
Or y’all knew about it 
Y’all don’t care 
Til silence fills up your lives…
Y’all realize too late that 
Y’all intentionally grew longest distance away from 
Your wives cos of your moms….
Shake my head 
Don’t think about your ex wives now
Go be with your mamas 
Sounds like they have no lives 
They’re dependin on you….
They never thought about being on cruise 
Or volunteer 
They be up in your spaces…y’all just acknowledge
Why your women left y’all…
Cos y’all don’t know how to be a real man…
I’m a messenger…

💯©️ Kai C. 5-15-26