I swear my got damn Mother pisses me off beyond belief sometime!

She's expressed to me my whole life about her parents my grand parents fucked up parenting, but when I bring it up she goes into this I'm not bitter about it speech!

It has nothing to do with being bitter when it's TRUE!

Why even address bitterness? I'm just simply giving a view point based off of what she told me, and based off of what I've observed personally dealing with my grand parents which aligns with what she's experienced when dealing with them.

Why does bitterness have to enter into the conversation when it's FACTS!