You can’t change a man, ladies
Even if you tried,
He’s not your perfect man…
Sorry…he’s not going to be
What you wanna be…
You did everythin you could….
He’s not goin to change,
Not even a little bit….

You force him to love you….
You force him, you beg him
What’s not clickin is that

He’s not really yours
You’re not his dream girl…
I know we wanna be that woman
That woman he cannot keep his eyes off of you …

But this is not him….
Girl wake up
You need to stop trying so change
A man…a man who is comfortable in
His own skin….if he doesn’t want to change
Then leave him….

I get annoyed when women are tryin to change
Their men…I did that too…
Does he make sacrifices for you?
Like give up his hobbies
Or don’t go to his homie’s house…

I mean don’t change into a different person
You want….cos what if he’s sufferin on the inside….
You tell him to control his temper when he’s angry
At the right thing….somehow women who tried to change
Men don’t change themselves….

Society was like a woman is always right
Even if she’s wrong
That does tell me a man can’t be put in her place
Sometimes…she puts her foot down like she doesn’t have
To change….but a man should change….

It’s not fair, cos if a man gotta change
Then a woman gotta change….

Cos changin a man who doesn’t need to turn
Into somebody he’s not….he’s not goin to ride a
White horse for you…he may not have a lot of
Money but he’s willin to spend time with you…
There are no such thing as prince Charmers like in movies
Okay?
We need to stop changin men….honestly men don’t wanna be change
Unless they decide to…

Find the ones who wanna make a change….
Simple…
🫶🏾💯✊🏿©️ Kai C. 5-30-24