Desperation will always be a trend…

Desperation will always be a trend…
No matter what….
Desperate for love and such….
Now women are proposin men for
Marriage…women put spells on
Men to make them connected….
That’s a pick me behavior…
They knew what they’re doin…
Some don’t really care that being desperate
Backfired them sayin they got a man…

Which is sad…
We women shouldn’t chase a man
I shouldn’t chase a man….
It scares him off….
A man who genuinely likes you,
Will chase you, will pursue you…
Will invest you…will ask for your hand in marriage
Not the other way around…..

Yet we women don’t pay attention to our own
Mr. Right…we’re so hardheaded to the point
We let them passed us by..cos we focus on the
Wrong guys who are cruel to this world…

To be honest,
Women who are desperate,
Doesn’t know the value of self worth…
Their self esteem is low of the lowest
They don’t mind their hearts being broken
All the time, thinkin it’s love…love doesn’t have to
Hurt….

They saw their parents split up…they saw their mothers
Beggin, pleadin for a man to stay with them…yet the man
Ran…and the daughters quite have picked up on that, it’s a
Cycle…it’s a learnin curve to chase a man all over town
To love…boy crazy…

I was boy crazy chasin those boys around
Tryin to get them to like me back…
Can’t be doin…the worst part is some people
Encourage that behavior…cos a man will be far
Gone…

Listen,
If you want a lovin healthy relationship,
Don’t join this stupid trend…
Let the man chase you, let the man make a move…
Let him ask you to marry him,
Cos if he knows you’re his dream girl,
He will make sure he gives you everythin
You need, desire…a man who wants to grow old
With you…you need to learn how to love yourself
You need to take care of your heart first…
Not goin backwards….

Desperation will always be a trend…
Women are beggin
Naggin
Their boyfriends/husbands/fiances
Forcin them to love them back
When really they don’t actually love you
At all…they want your benefits….
They’re takin advantages of your kindness
And your body…
Yall actin like wives without a ring on your finger…

It’s everywhere on TikTok
I’ve seen it on YouTube…
Those pick me’s cry a lot
Cos their partners show their unrequited love….
Those who love pain, adore heartache
Those who try to change a man when he never
Wants to….
Those who are actually blind to the red flags
Friends and Family warn them about that person
And they never listen…

I would say enjoy the hard way then..
Since women who doesn’t want help
Nor advice…they wanna feel lonely….
They like toxicity…but deep down
In their souls, in their guts
They knew this is Mr. Wrong…
They ignored that, make their temples
Love a man who treats you like shit…

I’m tellin you it’s a trend
Make a man who feels uncomfortable
Persuadin him to do somethin he never wants to do….
You are mean, and desperate…
Like bossy….
I used to be like you….
I used to have an attitude with a guy
Only to pay attention to me…
It shouldn’t have to be that way….
It’s actually a psycho behavior…

It’s why he walked away…too distant from your feet
Cos he doesn’t wanna be with you….💯💔😢©️ Kai C. 9-23-24