If he does love you…

If he does love you….
If he truly genuinely does…
Then his heart is yours to keep….

If he does respect you…
If he actually does….
Then you have nothin to worry about…

Yes you have to be careful…
You must get to know him slowly
You must study his actions…
Never let those red flags fool you

Cos I tell you what
Love is blind
Love can cover your eyes in a heartbeat….
People see the warnings
And they tell you his soul is not that good

Til it’s too late…

Your stubbornness is in the way,
I know you want a true romance
So bad to the point where you lose
Yourself in him, in his arrogance….
His arrogance usually breaks a woman’s
Heart…it’s true….

I don’t want that for you….
I don’t want tears in your eyes
And hurts become your burden….
Your friends your loved ones
Told you not in a harshest way
That he doesn’t love you….
I say it bluntly
He doesn’t love you…
Only to waken your bruise spirit
Makin you realize
He’s not the one for you…

I know it’s rude
Or maybe how I say it
Is rude and I do apologize
Yet your naiveness kills my insides….
What do you mean
You still love him?
What do you mean
You stay with him?

That’s Mr. Wrong
The wrong person
And you are goin to learn
The most difficult way….
You’ll regret later
For not listenin to
Your homies who care
About your well being….

If he does love you,
If he truly does,
you have to see it
Real close…
Look deep into his eyes…

Make sure
There’s no love bombin
You gotta wise up sis,
Please use your brain for once
In your life when it comes to
Romantic relationships….
Don’t use your heart a lot

Cos if you do,
You will invite more ache
More tears on your pillow
I’ve seen that a lot
With many women
Especially myself as well

We want a beautiful
Love story that lasts forever
There’s nothin wrong with that
There’s nothin wrong with
Wantin each man of our dreams
Who loves each of us, too…
However we go through
Pains that shaped us…
Lesson after lesson
Knowin what we want
And we realize we don’t need
To endure anymore….

If he does loves you,
If he truly does
Knowin
He will do anythin for you
He will pursue you every chance he gets…
He goes out of his ways to see you smile
To hold you in his arms….
There’s no beggin
No pleadin
and no ultimatum
You don’t have to ask him to marry you
He’s not Stringin you along
For years…
Cos a man who truly wants you in his life
He will propose to you….
He’s not chasin your access, your resources
You’re his dream girl….
He loves you for you
He respects who you are…
That’s Mr. Right
That’s the right person….

Don’t let him pass you by
Don’t ever miss your chance…
Cos

I can tell you
Real love is possible…..

Never lose your mind over
Some asshole who gives you
So much heartache….

Leave him…

Your absences
Your silence
Will let him know
He fumbled a good woman like you….

You are wonderful, sis…
Remember that…
You are kind and sweet
And intelligent
Any man who would love
To be with you…
You are beautiful….

I hope you know that….
I hope you’re easy to love….

Don’t forget that…💯©️Kai C. 12-19-25