Disability and sex

Disability and sex
I don’t understand
Why people are
Actin like we can’t be
Sexual beings
Or we’re not sexual
Cos of how we look
And the way we look
Just cos we’re in wheelchairs
Or have walkers
Doesn’t mean we can’t fuck….
Our deformities
Have never stop us
From gettin our cheeks clapped….
There are still people
Who thinks this way….
Some may not understand
The whole situation
However
They are human
They do get horny…..
Friends or families
Even caregivers
Have to explain
How to protect their bodies
And the risks
We’re just like everybody else….
I heard people
Asked an ableist question
Can you have sex?
Cos of physical
Everybody can fuck
Everybody can make love
Yes people with disabilities
Can have children, too….
I don’t get why
There’s a myth like that
People with disabilities
Can’t have sex
People with disabilities
Don’t feel anythin
Why do we have to be treated
As infants?
We’re adults
Other adults encourage other
Adults to act grown….

It’s human
To feel wanted
To feel desirable
To crave for someone
To fall in love
Watch porn….

May be aware
Or may not be
Aware of inappropriation
There are staffs around
To care
To look after
Even though
They’re grown ups….

Disability and sex
We do have sex
We do get told to wait for the
Right person to come along….
Real love comes first….
Real love comes with deep connection
Comes with passion and understandin…
Comes patience….
We’re told to make sure you’re really ready….

Sex is not everythin…
Intimacy is important….

We’re humans
We feel things
We want things
We love hard
Some fuck hard and fast

Don’t feel ashamed
Of thinkin about sex
Of wantin to fuck
Nothin wrong with that….
Don’t let anybody say
You can’t sleep with someone
Cos of your special needs….
You can…

♿️✊🏿💯©️ Kai C. 6-11-26