I don't get caught up in crowds..these words mimic, shape shifting, triggers, over stands, etc. I don't follow their language as such. Scholar's are judged by their language as to be excepted are not in their eyes. I speak my own and they respect that from me. I'm able to go and meet you on any level. But I will not kiss a$$ to prove a damn thing. I prefer to just do me and be me..works out just fine.
I'm not going to sugar coat life for ANYONE.