“Be wise when you enter into a sacred union, for when you make love with your man, you become all of who he is and what he is. Women drink his essence into her womb, the entrance to her entire world. If he is in trouble or in pain, or full of alcohol, tobacco, or flesh, she becomes all of who he is through his sacred fluids. So be wise and heal your man, not only for his sake, but especially for your own.” ~ Queen Afua.