If you get with a person who is weak in the same areas where you are weak and they are not striving to improve but you are then that will end up being too heavy on you.

Either you both need to be striving to improve in those areas or better yet you need to get with someone who is strong in the areas where you are weak. That will not only make you stronger in those areas but it will also enable you to spend more time being great doing the things you are great at, which will make you feel much better.

Balance equates to Peace.