Damn that's all... Thats old over here maybe because I been there and did that... but even when I was younger... how could you have that on the table term before I would what something new. On the table it need to be something longterm and something that a man would see long term. Being beautiful and sexy can get you so far before you start to open your mouth... Now we about to see if it's longterm or not. Put a man up there and keep that same toxic energy to the table andni would tell you the same just men have to automatically bring entangables to the table that you can't see up front. (Do you think he would be a good Husband, father, provider, protector and a man you would not give up on even during hard times.) I can same about wombmen also know that I think about... Is feminine, not argumentative, but is still willing to give you input with out the negative conditioning with often see, a wife longterm, a mother to your child, You will not give up on her even if she has emotional sequences that your say this is not her and always support you by not sugar coating issues that might plaque the relationship. There is more for the men but this is what we want. The lady at the table she for now thou.