Part 2. My opinion and response to the question where should the wife's undying loyalty be with the husband or with the child?

So here's my take on it. Was the husband over the over the top? Yes absolutely. Spanking (or beating inbthis case 🤣🤣) should never be given in (hostile) emotion, but rather in loving correction. After all we don't hate our children, but rather the corruption of their souls by this imperfect world.

Wives... Hold fast to your husband, and endure! We can learn from one another, grow together, and make more children and the dumb ones might even wake up 😅🤦🏾‍♂️.

Seriously, who knows? Over time we may learn from them, what mistakes were made, where things went astray... life is a state of constant elevation, but to choose a child over your life partner is bound to fail. No healthy adult (male, or female) will cling to their "Mommy". This is why our ancestors had (puberty) rights of passage for one day we will marry, give birth, and expire. At some point we must walk the path that no one else can walk for you.

It is only a sickness (starved for love, and attention, or even worse a control complex) that would make a Mother impede the growth process towards self-sufficiency. I can stand on my own two feet does not equal I don't value you, or I don't need your advisement. In fact in our culture the Queen Mother occupies the HIGHEST station in society. We recognize that she has raised the ENTIRE village through her own personal growth. She is the best of us, but without love (a precious love) she will stagnate, because that admiration fuels her own self esteem. The love of the village is great it's like a lake, but when a husband lifts her up like a crown jewel that love is a well.