Keep hangin wid ya homies, going to clubs wid da homies, having sports bar night out wid da homies, playing video games wid da homies, dropping freestyle bars in da studio wid da homies, doing podcasts wid da homies, having male celebrities, musicians, and sports stars that you admire, continue keeping the company of men, most of the time - THEN WONDER WHY YOU CAN'T RELATE TO, GET, COMPREHEND, OR COMMUNICATE PROPERLY WITH, WOMEN. Sidenote: stupidity is doing the same thing, over and over again, and expecting different results.