LADIES....thee BEST question you could ask a male, that you're just "getting to know" is this: If MONEY wasn't an issue, and you could do whatever you wanted, for the rest of your life, WHAT WOULD THAT BE (what would that look like)? THEN, LADIES, THIS PART IS VERY IMPORTANT - STAY SILENT FOR EXACTLY 60 SECONDS AND JUST LET HIM TALK. His answer/body language will tell you all you need to know to make a decision or not to continue to allow him to have access to you/your life. YOU'RE WELCOME.