I🚩🚨Incorrect. Keep in0mind, that love and respect are interchangeable, and that you CAN NOT have one, without the other. - man changes, because he loves HIMSELF. EVERYONE...AS a teen or adult, your first LOVE should ALWAYS be of YOURSELF, in ANY context. As a child your first should be you mommy and/or daddy. As you mature, you can love your parent(s) equally to how much you love yourself. SELF LOVE is thee most important love you will ever have in life as a teen or adult. If he doesn't love/respect himself, HE WILL NEVER IMPROE ANYTHING about himself or his life.