MALES - STRUGGLE BY YOURSELF. Get ya ish together BEFORE you seek a woman. Women don't need/want struggle - we got our own. LADIES...the minute the money is gone and your quality of life is (a.k.a. JOY) diminishes because of it - LEAVE HIS @$$ and never look back! "Struggle" can't pay bills! WOMEN deserve THE BEST (better than 'struggle" ). Periot.