Everyone's 'love language' is different. This 'inclusion' thing sounds like a nightmare to me, if it's done MOST of the time. I'd like to think that a significant other has his own, thoughts, life and hobbies, just as much as I do. Him being considerate of my feelings, and having an "US" isn't of a "ME" mindset, 24/7 is great - I just need my personal space, and "me time" half the time. Ideally, we should be away from each other half the day, every day - that's healthy. Absence makes the heart grow fonder.