You said you were born this way (gay) and then proceed to say "whether I want to be this way or not..." Which means you have options, you have choices, you can choose to be gay or choose to be straight. I was born Melanated, I'm still Melanated and I will die Melanated. You on the other hand, can change your sexual preference at the blink of an eye if you decided do to so for whatever reason(s). You can be gay and straight as often as you want for the rest of your life. Me? I CANNOT change being Melanated no matter how hard I try. So stop with #thefuckery about being born gay