TDWB, AlexisW    مشترکہ a  پوسٹ
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I love this and let's just add the patience part. It's playing the long game not a time to hop on board and jump ship as soon as the first terrible storm hits.

Evolvement in marriage
As much as I wanna get married someday I heard that it’s not goin to be perfect.... Two spouses go through ups and downs Bad days and good days...
When two people ages, they evolve
They learn a lot of new things about each other
And about each other....
What I learned about marriage is
That you gotta have grace, you gotta have patience
You gotta compromise you gotta have all the things
To keep love alive...to keep a marriage to stay
Beautiful...it’s a tough thing to do cos nobody is
Perfect...you ask me what do I know when
I’ve never been married before...well it’s the married
People I know in my life....they show me how to love
In the most honest way...wife should be your best friend
Husband should be your best friend...they should be laughin
Together ...They should be kind to each other.. They should be
Reminding themselves why they’re a married couple in the first place...
Why they love each other...it does keep the romance flowin...I learned about Marriage through married couples...it makes me wanna marry
My best friend...it makes me wanna marry a man who loves me too.....
I don’t mind evolvin with the person who is dear to my heart...
Evolvin is natural and for me I hope it’s a good thing....
Cos evolvin is different for everyone...it might be different for my future husband... The thing is, I wanna grow old with someone....
I wanna become elders with a gentleman...
Even with evolvement settle in on us or no
We would stay true to ourselves
Vibin together...
Still romancin...
Sweetness in our holdin hands...
I will say this,
I’m not going to give up on
Real love....
If I’m a wife I’m not goin to give up on my husband and marriage...
Healthy love does exist.....
Now I’m aware there’s an evolvement in marriage
For me and my future husband I hope it’s a good thing....
Cos maybe evolvement can be like rekindlin romance
Give us a new kind of fire....
🧸🍭❣💋🥰💕🫶© Kai C. 1-11-24