Nobody cares, because time and time again, males show they don't care about themselves. You're first LOVE should ALWAYS BE for yourself. My goodness....men don't even go to the Doctors for regular check ups, unless his wife, adult daughter, or woman relative reminds him over and over again! MALES need to take the L for why most women have stopped caring and hold themselves accountable in this context. MALES, stop trying to blame others for a circumstance YOU CREATED. Practice DAILY self-care, and maybe as women see you do this - she'll care more. CAUSE and EFFECT.