LADIES...MALES need to put in effort to peruse the woman he's in interested in. THAT'S THE ROLE OF MALES - EVEN ANIMALS NOW THAT. MALES putting in effort, were the woman he likes is concerned, IS CALLED ADULTING. If a MALE does not put in EFFORT, in this context, he's a LAZY BUM. If the woman doesn't want him back - so be it. He should be mature enough to accept that fact and move on knowing there are plenty of fishes in the sea. If he's thinks being a woman's 'friend' is a bad thing - he's a scrum bag that doesn't actually like women as human beings. In that case, he may just have to accept coming out of his closet cause he likes MALES more than woman. Just leave women alone, all together and taste that rainbow BRAH. 🌈🏳‍🌈