Being 29 and under, has a lot to do with this too. Young people make impulsive decision and never think about the consequences of their actions. The selfishness started with having unprotected s3x and not thinking about the 'what if' or the future, should pregnancy be the result. It's a lot of males, telling women they are wearing a condom, pretend to do so, and don't put one on, while the woman never checks to see if he reall does, too - that part.