She's a du.mmy for staying with a MALE who is a terrible husband and a poor excuse for a father. After the children reached College age, it's wise for a woman to divorce the low life ball and chain, and life a joy-filled single life, or find a life partner who will ACTIVELY give her the attention she needs on a DAILY basis. There are TOO many dead beat dads and single married women who co-habitate, just for the sake of co-habitating, out there. For all women do in the family unit, WOMEN DESERVE BETTER! Smh.