Datin white men
Is not an upgrade….
It’s not the level up….
I never thought
Datin white men is
Better than any black men…
But there are black women
Who thought this way….
Datin someone outside your race
Doesn’t mean you’re all that…
Doesn’t mean you have to talk
Shit towards your community….
I’m sayin the same thing to black men
Also….it’s your business to date whoever you
Want…don’t date yourself for whiteness….
Don’t ever think that you’re so superior now
Cos you’re with a white person….
I used to have crushes on white boys…
I wanted one of them to like me back…
I didn’t care about their skin color….
I thought they weren’t racist….
And I follow them on Instagram….
However I haven’t spoken to them in a while….
But I was infatuated…
In high school….
Years later,
I have looked at interracial relationships
Differently….
I learned the history and psychology behind that
Love is beyond skin color…
After I checked out the news
About Telvin Osborne
And how his white girlfriend shot him
Her white privilege shows its ugly glow….
I thought the situation is all fucked up
It’s a prime example of black people gets no power
From interracial relationships….
Racism will always play a role no matter where
You go….
A while go I watched a YouTube video of
A black woman experienced her white husband’s family…
I think I could remember
One of the things she said
When you’re dealin with his family,
You can’t be too black
Can’t be too confident
Hope that’s what she said
Somethin along there….
I don’t truly remember
Yet when you’re in an interracial
Relationship, there might be racist members
That could make you go back in your place
Microaggressin you
Treatin you like an animal…
I hope you have a partner defends
You….
I hope your partner will use white privilege
To stand by you
Even if it’s difficult….if y’all love each other,
Y’all will have uncomfortable discussions
About racism….
And many people don’t like truth
Somehow it’s goin to be a part of a relationship….
And when you have kids
Tell them the truth…
Don’t lie
Don’t sugar coat
And teach your kids how to love
Themselves…especially the black side…
Cos the black side needs more lovin
More healin….
They could love the white side
But the culture has its colonizations
And mass destruction….
Yet tell them there are some good white people
Just tell them
Cos they will have melanin like you….
Don’t talk down to your own people
Ok?
If you’re datin a white person,
Don’t be disrespectful to your own race in
Public…don’t disrespect yourself either….
Do what you want…
It’s your business…
You don’t have to be cruel to the ones who look like you….
Ok?
✊🏿💯©️ Kai C. 5-27-25
