I’ve never heard that
Marriage is easy
Or easier
Maybe it’s because
You’re with right person…

It does make sense…

You still have
Bad days and good days
And it’s not goin to be perfect

You and your partner
Has to make the effort
Do the work in order to
Make a relationship more alive..

It’s about communication
Compromisin
Laughin
It’s about being with your best friend
Through thin and thick….

Yes life can be stressful
It’s messy
But don’t forget why you and your spouse
Love each other in the first place…
Instead of being roommates and strangers..

Though I’ve never been married before…
What do I know, right?
My brother and his wife has been together
For a while..
I learned a lot…
I can’t say their marriage is easy, don’t know their
Opinions but

They love each other…
A lot…
To me it’s easier and done

If I do become a wife
A long term lovin wife to a lovin husband,
Am I goin to say my marriage is easy?
When it’s not all roses?
When it’s bad moods and good?
Never perfect but we still love each other
And still want each other in despite all of it?

I might say my marriage is easier….
I don’t know….
I don’t know when I’m goin to get married…

I guess marriage is easy
When you’re with the love of your life
Who treats you well
And you treat them well
The fact is,
You both realize it’s not always sunshine
Though you both still bring guidin light to each other’s hearts

Again what do I know about being married?
I don’t know…
I never have a hubby before…

💙🫶🏾 ©️ Kai C. 7-8-23

This video will explain why I write a poem about marriage.

https://abibitumitv.com/v/LEfk8S

 

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I love romance and love ❤️

You hopeless romantic

You hopeless romantic
Believe somethin is real
Somethin is true..
Somethin that can last forever
I do too….

There’s nothin wrong with
That….
We hopeless romantic
Has this belief where
There’s a soulmate for everybody….

And we’re not too old
To our enchanted souls to the world…
It never gets old….

Don’t be ashamed
To fall in love with the idea of love
You can write a whole list of
What do you want in a lovin partner?
In a good relationship?

Not toxic
Just warm and enjoyable company….

We must know
That love shouldn’t hurt
Shouldn’t make our hearts cry….

Love is suppose to make us smile
And not feel alone every time….

You hopeless romantic
I, hopeless romantic

We’re also hopeful romantic
And there’s always hope for someone
In the world to love and love in return…

🫶🏾💙💜©️ Kai C. 7-8-23

I want to know how I got to be a hopeless romantic in the first place. I don’t remember. I remember as a kid, I watched a lot of love stories on tv. And reading love poems.