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Michigan.. SMH 😞
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Plain ridiculous!!! Hope she is surviving and thriving 🙏🏾
You can’t change a man, ladies
Even if you tried,
He’s not your perfect man…
Sorry…he’s not going to be
What you wanna be…
You did everythin you could….
He’s not goin to change,
Not even a little bit….
You force him to love you….
You force him, you beg him
What’s not clickin is that
He’s not really yours
You’re not his dream girl…
I know we wanna be that woman
That woman he cannot keep his eyes off of you …
But this is not him….
Girl wake up
You need to stop trying so change
A man…a man who is comfortable in
His own skin….if he doesn’t want to change
Then leave him….
I get annoyed when women are tryin to change
Their men…I did that too…
Does he make sacrifices for you?
Like give up his hobbies
Or don’t go to his homie’s house…
I mean don’t change into a different person
You want….cos what if he’s sufferin on the inside….
You tell him to control his temper when he’s angry
At the right thing….somehow women who tried to change
Men don’t change themselves….
Society was like a woman is always right
Even if she’s wrong
That does tell me a man can’t be put in her place
Sometimes…she puts her foot down like she doesn’t have
To change….but a man should change….
It’s not fair, cos if a man gotta change
Then a woman gotta change….
Cos changin a man who doesn’t need to turn
Into somebody he’s not….he’s not goin to ride a
White horse for you…he may not have a lot of
Money but he’s willin to spend time with you…
There are no such thing as prince Charmers like in movies
Okay?
We need to stop changin men….honestly men don’t wanna be change
Unless they decide to…
Find the ones who wanna make a change….
Simple…
🫶🏾💯✊🏿©️ Kai C. 5-30-24
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You can’t change a person
You can’t change a man
You can’t change a woman….
Maybe you can change yourself
Or not….
But stop tryin to change people…
Let them change themselves
Let them decide if they wanna change….
Stop puttin pressure on friends
On loved ones to turn into somebody they’re not…
What’s wrong with you?
How about this?
Go find your own circle of people
That you don’t have to change
But what is your ideal group, though?
Maybe you need to change yourself?
Or maybe you should heal yourself?
What’s the matter?
Do i have to change for you?
No…I don’t need to…
I don’t have to..
I don’t want to….
I can be myself whether you like it or not….
If I can make a decision to change myself
For whatever reason that may be…
I would…. But it wouldn’t be for you….
Stop tryin to change people who don’t wanna
Be changed….💯✊🏿©️ Kai C. 5-30-24
But most of us here on melanated people already knew. I lost 3 people (that I know of) to the vaccines, and have several that are experiencing health (and mental) issues as a result of the shot. The Honorable Minister Louis Farrakhan warned us.
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THIS Made no sense 😞
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It's becoming clearer that we must SEPARATE in order to survive and thrive.. THEY Just keep being horrible for THEIR own disgusting reasons and we don't have to tolerate them anymore 🫴🏾🫴🏾🫴🏾
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