PERFECTION IS OBTAINABLE, PART 2
The reason a man pays in civil divorce courts and family courtrooms isn't difficult to determine. Men make more money than women. Forget a woman's multiple college degrees and her being a Boss B*tch; money talks. If she were the major breadwinner, she would be on the hook. In truth, a husband/father who makes $345,000 annually is paying his wife $14,000 a month in alimony and $8,000 a month in child support for 3 kids total. That's $264,000 unified, leaving him $81,000 a year to make do with. She also took 3/5 of his 401k retirement plans, half of his investments, and half of his savings. What upsets me is she started the divorce procedure after he caught her cheating in bed, in their house, with 2 other men. She used the no-fault divorce law to sue you in civil court. Civil divorce court isn't civil. The child support checks you write out every month, over 50% goes to the state. It's why they make men who are not the fathers of illegitimate children after DNA tests prove they're not the father continue to pay child support. In some states all a woman has to do is name a stranger as the father and forge his name on the birth certificate because he can afford it, and he’s stuck supporting a child he’s never seen by a woman he never met. Think of the problems this can cause if he's married or already a father. It's like giving money to a bank robber because she claimed to be the new bank mgr; SMH. Your child support checks pay judges' pensions as well as policemen's (the irony) and firefighters' along with other government workers' pensions and state-funded programs. It's a conflict of interest. An abusive child-support adjustment on a man's future income, which goes against all sound doctrine concerning child support, is called Imputed Income. It’s a form of hell on earth for fathers who live within their means; it's manufactured BS by civil divorce and family court judges. Based on this reasoning: 'The courts adjust the child support payments based on what they assess or assume will be the father’s future income.' For example, you go to an investment bank with the intent to purchase stocks in a future start-up tech company. You're told the shares for this particular stock start at $200,000 per share. But there's no guarantee the investment will pan out. If they do, your dividends are reduced unless you reinvest. Guaranteed suicide. In other words, your ex and those kids will live to see you die in a YUGO. Women who say men are immature who play with gaming systems all day instead of spending quality time with them. They know that's how he makes his money that keeps a roof over their heads. I've seen countless videos of women, mostly Black, deleting or destroying gaming stations, and they instinctively know that's how their significant other makes his living, and they show no shame or remorse after the fact; some play ignorant and laugh it off. Beat’em; they won’t die. They call these men immature. You are destroying a man’s means to make a living at something he enjoys that doesn't involve contraband and makes it possible for you to shop and glam it up on his coins. Make it make sense.
Proverbs 14:1
14 Every wise woman buildeth her house: but the foolish plucketh it down with her hands.
Job, after all he endured, refused to leave his wife after she told him, “Curse God and die.” Most men would've taken the opportunity and left a woman like that in a shanty, with no children, no servants, no real estate, no livestock, and practically no wealth. If Job lived in America according to today's marital laws and biased, double standards in the courts, she would’ve taken him for half of his wealth or more. Does that sound fair? Yes. To women who don't work. To women who hate men. To women who want the come up. To women who just want someone else's money. To evil women, period. Marriage is a sacred covenant between a man, a woman, and God. Women have made it an industry. They use marriage as a way to create wealth without working, creating feelings, or forming an attachment to their host. It deters their plan to suck him dry to the bone or to the grave. Men are running away from marriage in droves. Marriage boutiques and bridal shops have gone out of business like rats jumping off sinking ships. Men woke up to the scam. The courts are rigged in women's favor. It left men with no voice, just throwing their futures away to women who birthed 4 children while they were married, and none of them are his. As governor of California in 1969, Ronald Reagan signed the first no-fault divorce law in the U.S. He admitted it was one of his biggest mistakes. Not all states adopted this law. Most, if not all, women don't consider a man's feelings or he's capable of having any. Look in the mirror. This is what some of you may morph into. Continue—
