Reciprocity is important! You have to give in order to receive you just can't be asking for something you didnt put in the work to earn . Not going to lie it's kind of annoying hearing all of this submit stuff when some men don't seem to realize is when you create a safe environment for women when she can feel like she can be herself and is secure then submitting isn't a problem it's when we're not in that environment that we don't submit because we don't feel safe we don't trust your judgment we don't trust your leadership or judgement for one reason or another. Having a penis does not entitled you to have a woman submit to you. Standing on your word giving her safe place where she can bask in her feminity and taking accountability for your actions and appreciating your partner does.Something you have done has created an unstable environment and due to that we always have to have our guard up. Women submit to men that they trust and they know will not put them in a situation that's unfavorable women ultimately submit to a man who allows them to bask in their feminine and not have to constantly dig in the closet for their masculine protective where to enter the world. Just something that's been on my mind lately so I thought I would vent here since MP is my home.