Melanated People

3 yrs

Is dating someone and them being your girlfriend the samething? Do you date just for friends?

Comment

I think that would cause confusion and conflict. If we're friends then we just hanging out. Imo

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Dating is the prequalified to being a girlfriend... if you date them and want to take it to the next level then they become girlfriend but if you dont want to take it to the next level then they go in friend zone

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If the dating includes physical sexual intimacy, you're a couple at that point.

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3 yrs

Everybody wants to be loved
Not heartbreak, correct?
Everybody wants someone to love them back…
We asked for it,
We look up somewhere in the sky
Wishin that special person would come into your life
Just for once, and not to break your heart….
The fact we fear of losin the one you love….
Right?

Yes there’s such thing as real love,
It’s so possible…
Maybe not for me…

I think it passes me by
Most times….
I won’t be able to adore someone
Who gives me butterflies…
Someone who caresses my face and tuck my hand
Behind my ear….
Not this time….

I won’t hear those I love you’s
Again….
With a deep meanin from the heart….

Cos everybody wants to be loved
By lovers who are significant others
That are afraid to break a golden heart….
And afraid of gettin hurt….

Couples who stay together
Who puts so much effort into work….
Cos they knew they love each other….
They be like “no you ain’t goin anywhere.”
I really want that…..

I don’t know if I’m goin to get that….
I really don’t know…..

This is my doubt that’s speakin
And I feel like

Maybe real love isn’t for me….

Real love is for someone else….
Everybody wants to be loved,
We deserve to be loved…

And for me, right now
I doubt it…..
😢©️ Kai C. 3-19-23